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Sex Toys Burning Out? Check Your Batteries!
~ Wednesday August 29, 2012

Sex Toys Burning Out? Check Your Batteries! What are the best batteries to use for your sex toys? What is the best way to keep your toys running for years instead of months? Make your sex toys last and last! Here I discuss the differences and benefits of "Heavy Duty" vs Alkaline vs NiMH and Ni-Cad Rechargeables as it relates with purely motorized toys (those with no electronics in them, particularly those having only a motor, switch and/or speed-control), along with other tips for a long-life for your toys.

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Dispatch from the International Lingerie Show 2012
~ Friday March 30, 2012

Las VegasWithout question, one of the highlights of my year is attending the International Lingerie Show in Las Vegas.

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Frisky Guide to Floggers
~ Tuesday January 4, 2011

Whip me! Beat me! Make my flesh sing, err... sting!

If you're new to the BDSM scene, or just new to the idea of using a flogger as a way to give someone pleasure, it can be a bit overwhelming when looking at all the options available for something as (seemingly) simple as a flogger.  But you'll quickly realise that compared to all other instruments (crops, paddles, slappers, canes, etc.) the flogger is the most complex to shop for and has the most options of any non-electric tool.

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Great Inventions - For Adults Only!
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Great Inventions - For Adults Only! Sex inventions! You saw it here first! The following are some of my most brilliant ideas, mostly the products of having awakened from a fitful night's sleep, woozy and half-conscious, yet with the entire idea crystallized in my mind, complete in all its brilliance! (That is, I truly astonish myself sometimes...)

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The Endorphin Levels in BDSM - a short primer on sending a submissive into hyperspace
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

The Endorphin Levels in BDSM: Although everyone into the BDSM scene has heard of endorphins, actually very, very few people really understand what they are, how they work, what the "high" is all about and how one can correctly induce the body to produce them. This short primer will answer those questions, and serve as a guide for anyone topping another so that they may successfully send their bottom into a very deep endorphin stupor! (Also known as leaving them in a big puddle of quivering ecstasy!)

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Sex Games
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Ahhh, sex games! I love the idea of there being more giggles and fun going along with your sex—in the bedroom and even all over the house... (heck, even outside!) Sex doesn't always have to be about the wildly horned-out and spontaneous passions coming strictly from merely having the "urge." That "urge" can be nurtured by playing various very cool and even silly sex games! Also, nobody can be forced to grow and expand - it happens all by itself when the freedom to play is exercised liberally. So take advantage of that simple fact and take your sex life to the next level with playfulness, giggles, and loving laughter!

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Solving the "Problem-Solving" Problem
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Solving the "Problem-Solving" Problem: Problem solving and Sex! About fifteen years ago, the book, "Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" by John Gray attempted to popularize the concept that males and females were fundamentally different in their communication styles – as fundamentally different as if they were from separate planets. While I contend that both sexes are TRULY from the very same planet, there is a grain of truth that – for either sex – the role of problem solver is sometimes taken up – to the point of pushing aside all other ways of being involved in the relationship. How do we solve THAT problem?

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De Facto Dominants
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

De Facto Dominants: Submissives and masochists in BDSM are just as worthy to be treated with respect as are dominants and sadists. There are no de-facto Dominants. Yet, in the 'scene' – at parties and even on-line – dominants often expect all submissives to act as if they had actually already accepted them as their dominants. Submissives and dominants – let's stop this nonsense now.

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BDSM - An Acronym of Acronyms
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

BDSM - An Acronym of  Acronyms: BDSM = Bondage & Discipline / Domination & Submission / Sadism & Masochism. Three acronyms in one, symbolizing how closely related the three really are. Read on to discover what is really going on with this "B/D-S/M" thing!

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Men and Their Butts
~ Tuesday July 20, 2010

Men and Their Butts: Anal Sex???? For a GUY??? Well, keep in mind, a person's "Sexual Preference" is defined by who they are attracted to, not by which nerve endings they stimulate. So, men – relax that butt! It is time for men to grow in a similar way many men quite often press women to!

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